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of the Month

A monthly virtual book club exoerience for women who love intentional reading, meaningful dialogue and elevated sisterhood.

✨Today we celebrate the power of women✨

Not just the titles we carry…
but the stories we’ve survived.

The women who dared to dream bigger.

The women who healed what tried to break them.

The women who decided they were worthy of joy, rest, luxury, and love.

Today is International Women’s Day, and I’m raising a glass to the women who:

🥂 Choose themselves
🥂 Support other women instead of competing
🥂 Refuse to shrink in rooms they were born to shine in
🥂 Build legacies for the generations coming behind them

To every woman doing the deep work…
healing, growing, rising, and becoming —

You are powerful.
You are worthy.
You are extraordinary.

And around here we believe something deeply:

✨ A woman fully in her power is unstoppable. ✨

So today, take up space.
Celebrate your journey.
Honor the woman you fought to become.

And if no one told you lately…

You deserve a life that feels as beautiful as it looks.

Happy International Women’s Day 💫

Drop a 💖 in the comments if you’re celebrating the woman you are becoming.

#InternationalWomensDay #WomenSupportingWomen #CelebrateWomen #WomensEmpowerment #BougieMoments

✨Today we celebrate the power of women✨

Not just the titles we carry…
but the stories we’ve survived.

The women who dared to dream bigger.

The women who healed what tried to break them.

The women who decided they were worthy of joy, rest, luxury, and love.

Today is International Women’s Day, and I’m raising a glass to the women who:

🥂 Choose themselves
🥂 Support other women instead of competing
🥂 Refuse to shrink in rooms they were born to shine in
🥂 Build legacies for the generations coming behind them

To every woman doing the deep work…
healing, growing, rising, and becoming —

You are powerful.
You are worthy.
You are extraordinary.

And around here we believe something deeply:

✨ A woman fully in her power is unstoppable. ✨

So today, take up space.
Celebrate your journey.
Honor the woman you fought to become.

And if no one told you lately…

You deserve a life that feels as beautiful as it looks.

Happy International Women’s Day 💫

Drop a 💖 in the comments if you’re celebrating the woman you are becoming.

#InternationalWomensDay #WomenSupportingWomen #CelebrateWomen #WomensEmpowerment #BougieMoments

March’s Bougie Book of the Month is here… and baby, we’re going deep.

📖 The Seven Daughters of Dupree by Nikesha Elise Williams

Seven daughters.
One complicated legacy.
Generational truths waiting to be uncovered.

This March we’re diving into sisterhood, family history, secrets, and the stories we inherit whether we asked for them or not.

🗓 Discussion: Last Tuesday of March on Zoom
🔗 Register once. Join us all year.

Grab your copy. Pour your wine and dive in.

#bougiebookofthemonth

March’s Bougie Book of the Month is here… and baby, we’re going deep.

📖 The Seven Daughters of Dupree by Nikesha Elise Williams

Seven daughters.
One complicated legacy.
Generational truths waiting to be uncovered.

This March we’re diving into sisterhood, family history, secrets, and the stories we inherit whether we asked for them or not.

🗓 Discussion: Last Tuesday of March on Zoom
🔗 Register once. Join us all year.

Grab your copy. Pour your wine and dive in.

#bougiebookofthemonth

HERstory lives in us.

We are the daughters of women who built, healed, stretched, and sacrificed.

This month, we honor them —
and we refuse to shrink as the women we ARE.

Women’s History Month begins.

#bougiemoments

HERstory lives in us.

We are the daughters of women who built, healed, stretched, and sacrificed.

This month, we honor them —
and we refuse to shrink as the women we ARE.

Women’s History Month begins.

#bougiemoments

Tonight’s Bougie Book Club was one of those “whew, let’s talk about it” conversations.

We just wrapped If I Ruled the World by @amyduboisbarnett and babyyyy… the dialogue was GOOD

Not messy.
Not spicy.
Just real.

We talked about how times have changed.
What used to be tolerated.
What gets amplified now.
How power, politics, ambition, and love hit differently in today’s world.

And what it means to be a Black woman navigating all of it.

There were moments of:

✨ “See, back in the day…”
✨ “But now?!”
✨ “I would’ve handled that differently.”
✨ “Whew, growth.”

I love that we can disagree, reflect, and still hold space for each other.

That’s what makes Bougie Book Club special.

We don’t just read.

We unpack.
We process.
We elevate.

March is loading… 📚✨

If you ruled the world, what’s one thing you’d change?

#BougieBookClub #TalkBougieToMe #BlackWomenRead #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

Tonight’s Bougie Book Club was one of those “whew, let’s talk about it” conversations.

We just wrapped If I Ruled the World by @amyduboisbarnett and babyyyy… the dialogue was GOOD

Not messy.
Not spicy.
Just real.

We talked about how times have changed.
What used to be tolerated.
What gets amplified now.
How power, politics, ambition, and love hit differently in today’s world.

And what it means to be a Black woman navigating all of it.

There were moments of:

✨ “See, back in the day…”
✨ “But now?!”
✨ “I would’ve handled that differently.”
✨ “Whew, growth.”

I love that we can disagree, reflect, and still hold space for each other.

That’s what makes Bougie Book Club special.

We don’t just read.

We unpack.
We process.
We elevate.

March is loading… 📚✨

If you ruled the world, what’s one thing you’d change?

#BougieBookClub #TalkBougieToMe #BlackWomenRead #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

This is the standard.

Across events.
Across rooms.
Across seasons.

5 Stars. Every. Single. Time.

Whether it’s Kaftans + Kocktails, an intimate sister circle, brunch, or our signature Reset + Renew retreat… the intention is always the same:

Curated.
Elevated.
Rooted in connection.

Bougie Moments isn’t about one good event.
It’s about creating spaces where women feel seen, celebrated, and safe to be fully themselves.

Consistency builds trust.
Trust builds community.
Community builds legacy.

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines… your seat is waiting.

To more Bougie Moments. ✨

#BougieMoments #TalkBougieToMe #CuratedExperiences #WomensExperiences #LuxuryWithPurpose

This is the standard.

Across events.
Across rooms.
Across seasons.

5 Stars. Every. Single. Time.

Whether it’s Kaftans + Kocktails, an intimate sister circle, brunch, or our signature Reset + Renew retreat… the intention is always the same:

Curated.
Elevated.
Rooted in connection.

Bougie Moments isn’t about one good event.
It’s about creating spaces where women feel seen, celebrated, and safe to be fully themselves.

Consistency builds trust.
Trust builds community.
Community builds legacy.

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines… your seat is waiting.

To more Bougie Moments. ✨

#BougieMoments #TalkBougieToMe #CuratedExperiences #WomensExperiences #LuxuryWithPurpose

Honor the Woman You’re Becoming

You’re not who you used to be—and that’s something to celebrate.

Every lesson, every boundary, every quiet shift matters.

Growth deserves recognition.
So does she.

✨ Drop a 🖤 if you’re proud of your growth.

#MindsetMonday #BougieMoments
#LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

Honor the Woman You’re Becoming

You’re not who you used to be—and that’s something to celebrate.

Every lesson, every boundary, every quiet shift matters.

Growth deserves recognition.
So does she.

✨ Drop a 🖤 if you’re proud of your growth.

#MindsetMonday #BougieMoments
#LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

Pretty in Pink.
Ravishing in Red.
Radiant in Sisterhood. 💕

Kaftans + Kocktails was everything.

We wrote love letters to ourselves.
We blended body oils.
We pulled affirmations.
We took selfies.
We sipped.
We savored.
We exhaled.

Bougie isn’t about excess.
It’s about intention.

And tonight? The intention was softness, joy, and connection.

Thank you to every woman who showed up beautifully — inside and out.

Sip. Savor. Shine.

#BougieMoments #KaftansAndKocktails #PrettyInPink #RavishingInRed #TalkBougieToMe

Pretty in Pink.
Ravishing in Red.
Radiant in Sisterhood. 💕

Kaftans + Kocktails was everything.

We wrote love letters to ourselves.
We blended body oils.
We pulled affirmations.
We took selfies.
We sipped.
We savored.
We exhaled.

Bougie isn’t about excess.
It’s about intention.

And tonight? The intention was softness, joy, and connection.

Thank you to every woman who showed up beautifully — inside and out.

Sip. Savor. Shine.

#BougieMoments #KaftansAndKocktails #PrettyInPink #RavishingInRed #TalkBougieToMe

Romance Yourself First

Before we ask for more love, care, or attention from others—we give it to ourselves.

Speak kindly to yourself.

Celebrate your growth.

Make yourself a priority.

✨ One way I’m romancing myself this week: __________.

#mindsetmonday #bougiemoments #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

Romance Yourself First

Before we ask for more love, care, or attention from others—we give it to ourselves.

Speak kindly to yourself.

Celebrate your growth.

Make yourself a priority.

✨ One way I’m romancing myself this week: __________.

#mindsetmonday #bougiemoments #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

While everyone was celebrating Valentine’s Day I couldn’t stop thinking about how long it’s been since I hosted a Mardi Gras trip.

Crowned in Culture.
Mardi Gras the Bougie Way.

⚜️20 Guests.
⚜️Thursday–Tuesday.
⚜️Balconies. Brunch. Black Tie.

VIP Waitlist opens tonight. 💜💚💛

Are you on our mailing list?

#BougieMoments #bougieinthebayou #talkbougietome

While everyone was celebrating Valentine’s Day I couldn’t stop thinking about how long it’s been since I hosted a Mardi Gras trip.

Crowned in Culture.
Mardi Gras the Bougie Way.

⚜️20 Guests.
⚜️Thursday–Tuesday.
⚜️Balconies. Brunch. Black Tie.

VIP Waitlist opens tonight. 💜💚💛

Are you on our mailing list?

#BougieMoments #bougieinthebayou #talkbougietome

💕 FINAL CALL 💕

Kaftans + Kocktails ticket sales end in 12 hours.

Soft luxury.
Sisterhood.
Body oil making.
Lite Bites.
Pink & Red EVERYTHING.

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines… this is your sign.

We are closing registration tonight.

Pretty in Pink. Ravishing in Red.
Meet us there.

🔗 Link in bio.

#BougieMoments #KaftansAndKocktails #PrettyInPink #RavishingInRed #TalkBougieToMe

💕 FINAL CALL 💕

Kaftans + Kocktails ticket sales end in 12 hours.

Soft luxury.
Sisterhood.
Body oil making.
Lite Bites.
Pink & Red EVERYTHING.

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines… this is your sign.

We are closing registration tonight.

Pretty in Pink. Ravishing in Red.
Meet us there.

🔗 Link in bio.

#BougieMoments #KaftansAndKocktails #PrettyInPink #RavishingInRed #TalkBougieToMe

Happy Galentine’s Day, Beauties 💗

Today we celebrate the women who:

✨ clap when you win
✨ correct your crown without competing
✨ pray for you and party with you

Bougie isn’t just champagne and cute outfits.

Bougie is sisterhood.

And I’m so grateful for the women who make this community what it is.

Tag your Bougie Bestie below 👇🏾

Let her know she’s appreciated today.

#TalkBougieToMe
#LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie
#GalentinesDay

Happy Galentine’s Day, Beauties 💗

Today we celebrate the women who:

✨ clap when you win
✨ correct your crown without competing
✨ pray for you and party with you

Bougie isn’t just champagne and cute outfits.

Bougie is sisterhood.

And I’m so grateful for the women who make this community what it is.

Tag your Bougie Bestie below 👇🏾

Let her know she’s appreciated today.

#TalkBougieToMe
#LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie
#GalentinesDay

Self-Love Looks Like Boundaries

Peace is precious.

And protecting it is an act of love—not selfishness.

This season, I’m honoring my energy, my limits, and my needs without apology.

✨ Where do you need stronger boundaries right now?

#MindsetMonday #BougieMoments #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

Self-Love Looks Like Boundaries

Peace is precious.

And protecting it is an act of love—not selfishness.

This season, I’m honoring my energy, my limits, and my needs without apology.

✨ Where do you need stronger boundaries right now?

#MindsetMonday #BougieMoments #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

🚨 ONLY 5 TICKETS LEFT 🚨

Kaftans. Kocktails. Sisterhood.

Soft laughs. Deep conversations.

Pink + red kaftans and a room full of grown women choosing joy. 💕

If you’ve been thinking about it… this is your sign.

Once these 5 are gone, doors are CLOSED.

✨ February 21
✨ Kaftans + Kocktails: Galentine Girls Night
✨ Wilmington, DE

🎟️ Grab your seat now before it sells out.

#Link in Bio 💃🏾🍸

#KaftansAndKocktails #BougieMoments #GalentineGirlsNight

🚨 ONLY 5 TICKETS LEFT 🚨

Kaftans. Kocktails. Sisterhood.

Soft laughs. Deep conversations.

Pink + red kaftans and a room full of grown women choosing joy. 💕

If you’ve been thinking about it… this is your sign.

Once these 5 are gone, doors are CLOSED.

✨ February 21
✨ Kaftans + Kocktails: Galentine Girls Night
✨ Wilmington, DE

🎟️ Grab your seat now before it sells out.

#Link in Bio 💃🏾🍸

#KaftansAndKocktails #BougieMoments #GalentineGirlsNight

Bougie is a mindset, not a price tag.

Not always grand gestures.

Sometimes it’s the quiet luxury of sitting on the edge of your bed…

moving slowly…

oiling your skin with intention…

and honoring your body before the world asks anything of you.

This morning, this was my bougie moment.

Present. Unrushed. Grateful. ✨

What’s your simple bougie moment today?

#TalkBougieToMe #BougieMoments #LuxuryInTheLittleThings #IntentionalLiving #bougieoverbasic

Bougie is a mindset, not a price tag.

Not always grand gestures.

Sometimes it’s the quiet luxury of sitting on the edge of your bed…

moving slowly…

oiling your skin with intention…

and honoring your body before the world asks anything of you.

This morning, this was my bougie moment.

Present. Unrushed. Grateful. ✨

What’s your simple bougie moment today?

#TalkBougieToMe #BougieMoments #LuxuryInTheLittleThings #IntentionalLiving #bougieoverbasic

Self-Love Is a Practice. Not a Mood.

Self-love isn’t something we fall into when everything feels good.
It’s the daily decision to choose yourself—especially on the hard days.

Grace over perfection.
Consistency over feelings.
Love, practiced.

✨ What does choosing yourself look like today?

#MindsetMonday #BougieMoments #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

Self-Love Is a Practice. Not a Mood.

Self-love isn’t something we fall into when everything feels good.
It’s the daily decision to choose yourself—especially on the hard days.

Grace over perfection.
Consistency over feelings.
Love, practiced.

✨ What does choosing yourself look like today?

#MindsetMonday #BougieMoments #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

Bougie doesn’t always have bubbles 🍾

Sometimes it’s matcha, good conversation, and aligned minds 💚

Tried matcha for the first time today @kaffe.karma and I’m not mad at it 👀

What’s your Feel-Good Friday looking like? ✨👇🏽

#bougiemoments #matcha #tiktokmademedoit

Bougie doesn’t always have bubbles 🍾

Sometimes it’s matcha, good conversation, and aligned minds 💚

Tried matcha for the first time today @kaffe.karma and I’m not mad at it 👀

What’s your Feel-Good Friday looking like? ✨👇🏽

#bougiemoments #matcha #tiktokmademedoit

Still thinking about our last Bougie Book of the Month discussion… ✨📖

RESET: Realign. Rebuild. Reimagine. gave us exactly what we needed — real conversations around resilience, mindset, and purpose. Proof that a book doesn’t have to be long to be impactful. Sometimes a quick, easy read can still hit you right in the soul.

What I loved most?
The honesty. The shared perspectives. The reminders that we’re all navigating growth in our own way — and we don’t have to do it alone.

Next up, we’re turning the page and asking a bold question as we head into next month:
✨ If I Ruled the World by Amy DuBois Barnett ✨

I can’t wait to see where this next conversation takes us.

If you’ve been thinking about joining the Bougie Book of the Month, this is your sign. 💕
Link in bio to register (only once!).

#BougieBookClub #bougiebookofthemonth #bougiemoments

Still thinking about our last Bougie Book of the Month discussion… ✨📖

RESET: Realign. Rebuild. Reimagine. gave us exactly what we needed — real conversations around resilience, mindset, and purpose. Proof that a book doesn’t have to be long to be impactful. Sometimes a quick, easy read can still hit you right in the soul.

What I loved most?
The honesty. The shared perspectives. The reminders that we’re all navigating growth in our own way — and we don’t have to do it alone.

Next up, we’re turning the page and asking a bold question as we head into next month:
✨ If I Ruled the World by Amy DuBois Barnett ✨

I can’t wait to see where this next conversation takes us.

If you’ve been thinking about joining the Bougie Book of the Month, this is your sign. 💕
Link in bio to register (only once!).

#BougieBookClub #bougiebookofthemonth #bougiemoments

Grab your girls, your kaftan, and your confidence. This is the Galentine 💕you didn’t know you needed.

Whether you come in hot pink, soft blush, deep red, or ruby bold — sis, you’re about to SLAY.

We’re embracing all things feminine, flirty, and fabulous as we step into a room filled with satin, sparkle, and sisterhood.

Join us for Pretty in Pink, Ravishing in Red: Kaftans & Kocktails – A Galentine Girls Night, a soft-life celebration full of glam, giggles, and grown-woman goodness.

Link 🔗 in Bio ⬆️

Early Bird Ticket Sales end TODAY!

Grab your girls, your kaftan, and your confidence. This is the Galentine 💕you didn’t know you needed.

Whether you come in hot pink, soft blush, deep red, or ruby bold — sis, you’re about to SLAY.

We’re embracing all things feminine, flirty, and fabulous as we step into a room filled with satin, sparkle, and sisterhood.

Join us for Pretty in Pink, Ravishing in Red: Kaftans & Kocktails – A Galentine Girls Night, a soft-life celebration full of glam, giggles, and grown-woman goodness.

Link 🔗 in Bio ⬆️

Early Bird Ticket Sales end TODAY!

Reset + Renew: Luxe 1-Day Retreat
📅 Saturday, January 24, 2026 | 📍 New Castle County, DE

Press pause and realign.
Reset + Renew is an intimate, soul-nourishing wellness retreat by Bougie Moments, designed to help women release, restore, and reconnect with their purpose.

This elevated experience supports the whole woman—mind, body, and spirit—through intentional wellness, sisterhood, and luxury.

Guests will enjoy:
✨ Wellness talk & guided journaling
✨ Sound bath, Reiki & gentle movement
✨ Empowerment board-breaking activity
✨ Continental breakfast, luxe brunch & rosé toast
✨ Sisterhood circles and soulful renewal

Whether you’re stepping into a new chapter or simply craving rest, this retreat is your invitation to reset—because renewal is a necessity, not a luxury.

Reset + Renew: Luxe 1-Day Retreat
📅 Saturday, January 24, 2026 | 📍 New Castle County, DE

Press pause and realign.
Reset + Renew is an intimate, soul-nourishing wellness retreat by Bougie Moments, designed to help women release, restore, and reconnect with their purpose.

This elevated experience supports the whole woman—mind, body, and spirit—through intentional wellness, sisterhood, and luxury.

Guests will enjoy:
✨ Wellness talk & guided journaling
✨ Sound bath, Reiki & gentle movement
✨ Empowerment board-breaking activity
✨ Continental breakfast, luxe brunch & rosé toast
✨ Sisterhood circles and soulful renewal

Whether you’re stepping into a new chapter or simply craving rest, this retreat is your invitation to reset—because renewal is a necessity, not a luxury.

Welcome to the Bougie Book of the Month — a monthly virtual book club experience for women who love intentional reading, meaningful dialogue, and elevated sisterhood.

Each month, we gather on Zoom on the last Tuesday of the month to discuss a thoughtfully curated book that explores growth, identity, love, power, healing, and legacy.
(We break in December for the holidays.)

✨ Important Note – One-Time Registration Required ✨

To join our monthly discussions, you’ll need to register for Zoom one time only.

Once registered, you’ll receive access to all Bougie Book of the Month discussions for the year, plus reminders and updates straight to your inbox.

This is more than a book club — it’s a space to:

✨ Read with intention
✨ Reflect out loud
✨ Connect with like-minded women
✨ Engage in thoughtful, judgment-free conversation

📖 What to Expect:

• Monthly curated book selections
• Guided, engaging discussions
• A consistent Zoom link after registration
• Community, connection & Bougie vibes

Zoom Registration Link in Bio ✨

Welcome to the Bougie Book of the Month — a monthly virtual book club experience for women who love intentional reading, meaningful dialogue, and elevated sisterhood.

Each month, we gather on Zoom on the last Tuesday of the month to discuss a thoughtfully curated book that explores growth, identity, love, power, healing, and legacy.
(We break in December for the holidays.)

✨ Important Note – One-Time Registration Required ✨

To join our monthly discussions, you’ll need to register for Zoom one time only.

Once registered, you’ll receive access to all Bougie Book of the Month discussions for the year, plus reminders and updates straight to your inbox.

This is more than a book club — it’s a space to:

✨ Read with intention
✨ Reflect out loud
✨ Connect with like-minded women
✨ Engage in thoughtful, judgment-free conversation

📖 What to Expect:

• Monthly curated book selections
• Guided, engaging discussions
• A consistent Zoom link after registration
• Community, connection & Bougie vibes

Zoom Registration Link in Bio ✨

✨ Two Years of Bougie Moments ✨

Two years ago, I said yes to a vision and created Bougie Moments—a space rooted in sisterhood, softness, celebration, and elevation.

In these two years, we’ve gathered beautifully:

🥂 meetups
👠 Sips & Stilettos
🌹 Rooftops & Rosé
💖 Galentine Girls Night
📚 Bougie Book of the Month conversations

Each moment has been a reminder that luxury is more than aesthetics—it’s community, connection, and shared joy.

As we step into this next chapter…

✨ we’re elevating
✨ we’re expanding
✨ and we’re taking it up a notch

If you’ve been rocking with Bougie Moments—thank you.

And if you’re new here… welcome to the sisterhood 💖

Stay tuned, beauties.
The best is yet to come 🥂✨

#BougieMoments

✨ Two Years of Bougie Moments ✨

Two years ago, I said yes to a vision and created Bougie Moments—a space rooted in sisterhood, softness, celebration, and elevation.

In these two years, we’ve gathered beautifully:

🥂 meetups
👠 Sips & Stilettos
🌹 Rooftops & Rosé
💖 Galentine Girls Night
📚 Bougie Book of the Month conversations

Each moment has been a reminder that luxury is more than aesthetics—it’s community, connection, and shared joy.

As we step into this next chapter…

✨ we’re elevating
✨ we’re expanding
✨ and we’re taking it up a notch

If you’ve been rocking with Bougie Moments—thank you.

And if you’re new here… welcome to the sisterhood 💖

Stay tuned, beauties.
The best is yet to come 🥂✨

#BougieMoments

✨ Bottomless Bubbles Brunch Recap ✨

Today was nothing short of AMAZING.
The food.
The conversations.
The energy.
EVERYTHING.

The ladies truly understood the assignment — from the soft, chic color palette to the effortless elegance at the table. 🤍✨

The bubbles flowed endlessly…
🥂 Kir Royales
🍑 Peach Bellinis
🍾 Champagne cocktails
🍊 Mimosas on repeat

But beyond the cocktails, it was the connection that made this brunch unforgettable. Z

Laughter, sisterhood, intentional conversations, and that unmistakable feeling you get when you’re surrounded by women who just get it.

This is what Bougie Moments is all about — curated experiences, elevated vibes, and community that pours into you just as much as you pour into the glass. 💫

If you missed this one… don’t worry.
More moments are coming. And trust — you’ll want a seat at the table. ✨🥂

#BougieMoments
#BottomlessBubbles
#BougieBrunch
#LifestyleoftheBlackandBougie
#YouHadMeAtChampagne

✨ Bottomless Bubbles Brunch Recap ✨

Today was nothing short of AMAZING.
The food.
The conversations.
The energy.
EVERYTHING.

The ladies truly understood the assignment — from the soft, chic color palette to the effortless elegance at the table. 🤍✨

The bubbles flowed endlessly…
🥂 Kir Royales
🍑 Peach Bellinis
🍾 Champagne cocktails
🍊 Mimosas on repeat

But beyond the cocktails, it was the connection that made this brunch unforgettable. Z

Laughter, sisterhood, intentional conversations, and that unmistakable feeling you get when you’re surrounded by women who just get it.

This is what Bougie Moments is all about — curated experiences, elevated vibes, and community that pours into you just as much as you pour into the glass. 💫

If you missed this one… don’t worry.
More moments are coming. And trust — you’ll want a seat at the table. ✨🥂

#BougieMoments
#BottomlessBubbles
#BougieBrunch
#LifestyleoftheBlackandBougie
#YouHadMeAtChampagne

If you’ve been feeling tired, stretched thin, disconnected, or like life has been happening to you instead of for you…
this is your sign.

Reset + Renew is not just a retreat. It’s a return to yourself. 🤍

In one intentional, soul-nourishing day, you’ll experience:
✨ Space to breathe, release, and reflect
✨ Guided moments of healing, clarity, and renewal
✨ Sisterhood that feels safe, affirming, and deeply aligned
✨ Tools you can actually take back into your real life
✨ An elevated, beautiful environment designed to pour into you

This is for the woman who:
• Gives to everyone else
• Knows she needs a reset but keeps putting herself last
• Is ready to soften, heal, and realign
• Wants luxury and substance
• Desires peace, clarity, and purpose in her next season

💫 Why get your ticket NOW?
✔️ Space is intentionally limited
✔️ Prices will not last forever
✔️ You deserve something to look forward to
✔️ Your healing doesn’t need to wait

Sis… imagine leaving lighter. Clearer. Recharged.
Imagine walking into your next season grounded, confident, and renewed.

You don’t need another “someday.”
You need this day.

🎟️ Secure your spot now
✨ Link in bio ✨

Because choosing you is always the right move. 💖

If you’ve been feeling tired, stretched thin, disconnected, or like life has been happening to you instead of for you…
this is your sign.

Reset + Renew is not just a retreat. It’s a return to yourself. 🤍

In one intentional, soul-nourishing day, you’ll experience:
✨ Space to breathe, release, and reflect
✨ Guided moments of healing, clarity, and renewal
✨ Sisterhood that feels safe, affirming, and deeply aligned
✨ Tools you can actually take back into your real life
✨ An elevated, beautiful environment designed to pour into you

This is for the woman who:
• Gives to everyone else
• Knows she needs a reset but keeps putting herself last
• Is ready to soften, heal, and realign
• Wants luxury and substance
• Desires peace, clarity, and purpose in her next season

💫 Why get your ticket NOW?
✔️ Space is intentionally limited
✔️ Prices will not last forever
✔️ You deserve something to look forward to
✔️ Your healing doesn’t need to wait

Sis… imagine leaving lighter. Clearer. Recharged.
Imagine walking into your next season grounded, confident, and renewed.

You don’t need another “someday.”
You need this day.

🎟️ Secure your spot now
✨ Link in bio ✨

Because choosing you is always the right move. 💖

Hey Bougie Beauties! ✨

As we wrap up 2025, I just want to pour out a little love and gratitude. This year has been all about embracing luxury, living out loud, and leaning into the beauty of sisterhood. 🥂

From our incredible events such as Galentine Girls Night, Rooftops & Rosé, and Perfume Making Brunch to name a few, to all the moments we’ve shared, you’ve helped create something truly special.

Here’s to stepping into 2026 with even more magic and a whole lot of bougie flair!

#BougieMoments #HappyBougieYear

Hey Bougie Beauties! ✨

As we wrap up 2025, I just want to pour out a little love and gratitude. This year has been all about embracing luxury, living out loud, and leaning into the beauty of sisterhood. 🥂

From our incredible events such as Galentine Girls Night, Rooftops & Rosé, and Perfume Making Brunch to name a few, to all the moments we’ve shared, you’ve helped create something truly special.

Here’s to stepping into 2026 with even more magic and a whole lot of bougie flair!

#BougieMoments #HappyBougieYear

Merry Christmas, Beauties 🎄✨

Today we pause.
We breathe.
We give thanks.

Thankful for love, for laughter, for lessons, and for a sisterhood that continues to grow, glow, and evolve. May your day be wrapped in peace, sprinkled with joy, and filled with moments that remind you just how blessed you are.

From my heart to yours — Merry Christmas 🤍

✨🎁🎄
#MerryChristmas #BougieMoments #TheBougieOne

Merry Christmas, Beauties 🎄✨

Today we pause.
We breathe.
We give thanks.

Thankful for love, for laughter, for lessons, and for a sisterhood that continues to grow, glow, and evolve. May your day be wrapped in peace, sprinkled with joy, and filled with moments that remind you just how blessed you are.

From my heart to yours — Merry Christmas 🤍

✨🎁🎄
#MerryChristmas #BougieMoments #TheBougieOne

Throwback Thursday 💕

Still reminiscing on the magic from our last Galentine’s Girls Night ✨
Pajamas, pink vibes, belly laughs, games, handcrafted flower bouquets, and self-love workbooks that reminded us to pour back into ourselves.

This wasn’t just a girls’ night — it was sisterhood in real time.
Safe space. Soft joy. Luxe energy. 💐🥂

And if this looks like your kind of vibe…
Kaftans + Kocktails is your next Bougie Moment 💃🏽✨

Kaftans on. Cocktails flowing. Community activated.

🎟️ Early Bird Tickets are available now — don’t wait. Link in Bio!

#ThrowbackThursday #BougieMoments
#GalentinesGirlsNight #KaftansAndKocktails

Throwback Thursday 💕

Still reminiscing on the magic from our last Galentine’s Girls Night ✨
Pajamas, pink vibes, belly laughs, games, handcrafted flower bouquets, and self-love workbooks that reminded us to pour back into ourselves.

This wasn’t just a girls’ night — it was sisterhood in real time.
Safe space. Soft joy. Luxe energy. 💐🥂

And if this looks like your kind of vibe…
Kaftans + Kocktails is your next Bougie Moment 💃🏽✨

Kaftans on. Cocktails flowing. Community activated.

🎟️ Early Bird Tickets are available now — don’t wait. Link in Bio!

#ThrowbackThursday #BougieMoments
#GalentinesGirlsNight #KaftansAndKocktails

Slow Snowy Sundays ❄️🤍

The Northeast woke up wrapped in a soft blanket of snow today—cars dusted, streets quiet, the world moving just a little slower.

Church was streamed online, which meant I actually slept in (a rare luxury these days), then eased into my proverbial lab to get some things done—no rush, no pressure, just purpose.

One of those days where you stay in your pajamas all day…

shower…

and then change into another pair of pajamas.

Soft life energy.

Rest + reflection.

Productivity without the chaos.

This is your reminder that rest is still fruitful and slow days are still sacred. 🤍

How are you spending your Snowy Sunday?

Be sure to swipe to see the bougieness we have planned ✨

Slow Snowy Sundays ❄️🤍

The Northeast woke up wrapped in a soft blanket of snow today—cars dusted, streets quiet, the world moving just a little slower.

Church was streamed online, which meant I actually slept in (a rare luxury these days), then eased into my proverbial lab to get some things done—no rush, no pressure, just purpose.

One of those days where you stay in your pajamas all day…

shower…

and then change into another pair of pajamas.

Soft life energy.

Rest + reflection.

Productivity without the chaos.

This is your reminder that rest is still fruitful and slow days are still sacred. 🤍

How are you spending your Snowy Sunday?

Be sure to swipe to see the bougieness we have planned ✨

✨Bougie Announcements ✨

#brunchnbubbly #resetnrenew #kaftansandkocktails #bougiemoments

✨Bougie Announcements ✨

#brunchnbubbly #resetnrenew #kaftansandkocktails #bougiemoments

A night of impact, leadership, & excellence.

Honored to celebrate Ayanna being named one of Delaware’s Most Impactful Leaders for the 3rd year in a row and to witness Dr. Harmon make history as Delaware Business Times’ first-ever Person of the Year.

Grateful to the DEBCC for the invite and the reminder that we belong in every room our purpose walks us into. ✨🖤

@delawareblackchamberofcommerce
@delawarebusinesstimes

#222 #impactfulleadership #DEBCC #bougiemoments #iamleslieberry

A night of impact, leadership, & excellence.

Honored to celebrate Ayanna being named one of Delaware’s Most Impactful Leaders for the 3rd year in a row and to witness Dr. Harmon make history as Delaware Business Times’ first-ever Person of the Year.

Grateful to the DEBCC for the invite and the reminder that we belong in every room our purpose walks us into. ✨🖤

@delawareblackchamberofcommerce
@delawarebusinesstimes

#222 #impactfulleadership #DEBCC #bougiemoments #iamleslieberry

A special Bougie thank you to @alishacooperwells aka @mscooperhomeloans for supporting the Reset + Renew Retreat as a Bougie Community Supporter.

Your contribution helps us create a luxury, restorative space where women can reconnect with themselves, release what no longer serves them, and step boldly into their next chapter. Community support like yours truly helps bring this vision to life.

We appreciate you for pouring into the Bougie Moments mission and being part of a movement rooted in sisterhood, self-care, and intentional living. 💗✨

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #SponsorSpotlight #mscooperhomeloans

A special Bougie thank you to @alishacooperwells aka @mscooperhomeloans for supporting the Reset + Renew Retreat as a Bougie Community Supporter.

Your contribution helps us create a luxury, restorative space where women can reconnect with themselves, release what no longer serves them, and step boldly into their next chapter. Community support like yours truly helps bring this vision to life.

We appreciate you for pouring into the Bougie Moments mission and being part of a movement rooted in sisterhood, self-care, and intentional living. 💗✨

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #SponsorSpotlight #mscooperhomeloans

Beauties, help me welcome @stephithelight + Be the Light Global as our official event partner.

Be the Light Global is an organization committed to illuminating hope, healing, and empowerment in the lives of women and families — a mission that aligns beautifully with the heart of Bougie Moments.

Their support allows us to expand the retreat’s impact, create more transformational moments, and offer an elevated experience rooted in sisterhood, wellness, and renewal.

I am deeply grateful for their belief in this vision and for standing with us as we create a space where women can rest, reset, and rise.

Please show Be the Light Global some love and support the powerful work they’re doing in our community. 🌍✨

Thank you, Be the Light Global, for being a light — and helping us shine brighter together.

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #BeTheLightGlobal #WomenSupportingWomen

Beauties, help me welcome @stephithelight + Be the Light Global as our official event partner.

Be the Light Global is an organization committed to illuminating hope, healing, and empowerment in the lives of women and families — a mission that aligns beautifully with the heart of Bougie Moments.

Their support allows us to expand the retreat’s impact, create more transformational moments, and offer an elevated experience rooted in sisterhood, wellness, and renewal.

I am deeply grateful for their belief in this vision and for standing with us as we create a space where women can rest, reset, and rise.

Please show Be the Light Global some love and support the powerful work they’re doing in our community. 🌍✨

Thank you, Be the Light Global, for being a light — and helping us shine brighter together.

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #BeTheLightGlobal #WomenSupportingWomen

Beauties, let’s take a moment to show deep appreciation to @tranquility_wellness01 , the official sponsor of our Guided Journaling + Reflection Session for the Reset & Renew: Luxe 1-Day Retreat. 🧘🏾‍♀️✨📝

Tranquility Wellness is a sanctuary for women who desire healing, alignment, and inner peace — and their mission flows beautifully with the heart of Bougie Moments.

Through their generous partnership, every attendee will experience a soul-nourishing journaling session designed to help you reconnect with your purpose, release what no longer serves you, and make room for the soft, sacred newness God is ushering in. ✨

Their commitment to women’s wellness and emotional wholeness is unmatched, and we are honored to have them as part of this transformative retreat experience.

If you haven’t already, follow Tranquility Wellness and support the incredible work they’re doing in our community.

Healing is a journey — and we don’t have to walk it alone. 🌱💛

Thank you, Tranquility Wellness, for pouring into the well-being of our Bougie Beauties.
Your presence truly elevates this retreat.

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #GuidedJournalingSponsor #TranquilityWellness

Beauties, let’s take a moment to show deep appreciation to @tranquility_wellness01 , the official sponsor of our Guided Journaling + Reflection Session for the Reset & Renew: Luxe 1-Day Retreat. 🧘🏾‍♀️✨📝

Tranquility Wellness is a sanctuary for women who desire healing, alignment, and inner peace — and their mission flows beautifully with the heart of Bougie Moments.

Through their generous partnership, every attendee will experience a soul-nourishing journaling session designed to help you reconnect with your purpose, release what no longer serves you, and make room for the soft, sacred newness God is ushering in. ✨

Their commitment to women’s wellness and emotional wholeness is unmatched, and we are honored to have them as part of this transformative retreat experience.

If you haven’t already, follow Tranquility Wellness and support the incredible work they’re doing in our community.

Healing is a journey — and we don’t have to walk it alone. 🌱💛

Thank you, Tranquility Wellness, for pouring into the well-being of our Bougie Beauties.
Your presence truly elevates this retreat.

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #GuidedJournalingSponsor #TranquilityWellness

Beauties, help me show BIG love to @theselfierestaurant for joining us as an official Champagne Sponsor for the Reset & Renew: Luxe 1-Day Retreat! 🥂

The Selfie Restaurant is more than a vibe — it’s a whole experience. From the gorgeous aesthetics to the curated moments made for fun, connection, and celebration, they understand exactly what Bougie Moments is all about: luxury, joy, sisterhood, and unforgettable memories.

Their support helps us elevate the retreat experience even more, ensuring every guest feels pampered from the moment they arrive .

Please show them some love, follow their page, and if you’re in Wilmington, stop by for great food, great energy, and the perfect place to capture your next Bougie Moment! 📸💕

Thank you, The Selfie Restaurant, for believing in this vision and pouring into the women we serve.

We appreciate you more than you know! 💗

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #ChampagneSponsor #TheSelfieRestaurant

Beauties, help me show BIG love to @theselfierestaurant for joining us as an official Champagne Sponsor for the Reset & Renew: Luxe 1-Day Retreat! 🥂

The Selfie Restaurant is more than a vibe — it’s a whole experience. From the gorgeous aesthetics to the curated moments made for fun, connection, and celebration, they understand exactly what Bougie Moments is all about: luxury, joy, sisterhood, and unforgettable memories.

Their support helps us elevate the retreat experience even more, ensuring every guest feels pampered from the moment they arrive .

Please show them some love, follow their page, and if you’re in Wilmington, stop by for great food, great energy, and the perfect place to capture your next Bougie Moment! 📸💕

Thank you, The Selfie Restaurant, for believing in this vision and pouring into the women we serve.

We appreciate you more than you know! 💗

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #ChampagneSponsor #TheSelfieRestaurant

The final 31 days of the year are here, sis — and you still have time.

Time to realign.
Time to shift.
Time to choose joy again. ✨

December reminds us that we don’t have to finish the year with pressure… we can finish it with grace, intention, softness, and community.

Repeat after me:

“I’m finishing this year aligned, empowered, and bougie on purpose.” 💕✨

#MindsetMonday #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #DecemberIntentions #FinishStrong #BougieMoments

The final 31 days of the year are here, sis — and you still have time.

Time to realign.
Time to shift.
Time to choose joy again. ✨

December reminds us that we don’t have to finish the year with pressure… we can finish it with grace, intention, softness, and community.

Repeat after me:

“I’m finishing this year aligned, empowered, and bougie on purpose.” 💕✨

#MindsetMonday #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #DecemberIntentions #FinishStrong #BougieMoments

🍂✨ Happy Thanksgiving, Beauties ✨🍂

Today and every day, I want you to know just how grateful I am for YOU.

For every woman who has laughed with us, danced with us, healed with us, showed up for herself, or simply cheered from the sidelines — you are the heartbeat of Bougie Moments.

This community is more than events and cute photos… it’s sisterhood, softness, joy, and transformation.

It’s women choosing themselves again and again.

It’s connection, elevation, and a whole lot of bougie magic.

Thank you for:

✨ trusting me with your experiences
✨ bringing your light into our spaces
✨ supporting the vision
✨ and helping this community continue to grow in love and luxury

May your day be filled with good food, good vibes, and gratitude for every blessing — big and small.

From my heart to yours…

I am so grateful for you. 💕🥂

#HappyThanksgiving #BougieMoments #GratefulForYou #SisterhoodAndSoftLife #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

🍂✨ Happy Thanksgiving, Beauties ✨🍂

Today and every day, I want you to know just how grateful I am for YOU.

For every woman who has laughed with us, danced with us, healed with us, showed up for herself, or simply cheered from the sidelines — you are the heartbeat of Bougie Moments.

This community is more than events and cute photos… it’s sisterhood, softness, joy, and transformation.

It’s women choosing themselves again and again.

It’s connection, elevation, and a whole lot of bougie magic.

Thank you for:

✨ trusting me with your experiences
✨ bringing your light into our spaces
✨ supporting the vision
✨ and helping this community continue to grow in love and luxury

May your day be filled with good food, good vibes, and gratitude for every blessing — big and small.

From my heart to yours…

I am so grateful for you. 💕🥂

#HappyThanksgiving #BougieMoments #GratefulForYou #SisterhoodAndSoftLife #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

✨ Celebrating Black Excellence & Entrepreneurship ✨

Today I had the joy of celebrating my fellow Delaware Black Chamber of Commerce member as The Selfie Restaurant marked ONE YEAR in business! 🎉📸🍽️

Lakia, I am truly inspired by the work you’re doing, the creativity you lead with, and the way you’ve built a space that brings people together. Your vision, your courage, and your commitment to community shine through every detail.

Congratulations on this milestone! Wishing you many more years of success, expansion, and unforgettable experiences. Keep leveling up — we’re cheering you on! 💕👏🏽

#SupportBlackBusiness #DEBCC #CommunityWins #TheSelfieRestaurant #BougieMoments

✨ Celebrating Black Excellence & Entrepreneurship ✨

Today I had the joy of celebrating my fellow Delaware Black Chamber of Commerce member as The Selfie Restaurant marked ONE YEAR in business! 🎉📸🍽️

Lakia, I am truly inspired by the work you’re doing, the creativity you lead with, and the way you’ve built a space that brings people together. Your vision, your courage, and your commitment to community shine through every detail.

Congratulations on this milestone! Wishing you many more years of success, expansion, and unforgettable experiences. Keep leveling up — we’re cheering you on! 💕👏🏽

#SupportBlackBusiness #DEBCC #CommunityWins #TheSelfieRestaurant #BougieMoments

✨ Thankful Thursday ✨

This morning, while flipping through my journal, I came across a note I wrote to myself months ago:

“Isolation can be the enemy’s breeding ground.”

Whewww… that hit different today.

Because if we’re honest, when life starts “lifing,” our first instinct is often to pull back… to disappear… to try to deal with everything alone.

But the truth is:

We are not meant to do life by ourselves.

Community matters.
Sisterhood matters.
Being surrounded by women who pour back into you with love, laughter, encouragement, and accountability absolutely matters.

Looking at these moments — these smiles, rooftop sunsets, dance nights, brunches, and sister circles — I’m reminded of just how blessed I am for the women God has placed in my life. Women who show up. Women who pray. Women who pour. Women who hold space.

Today, I’m thankful for community — the kind that reminds you you’re not alone, the kind that lifts you even when you don’t have the words, and the kind that helps you keep going when you feel like shrinking back.

If life is heavy right now, don’t isolate.
Lean in.
There is love waiting for you.
There is joy waiting for you.
There is sisterhood waiting for you.

Here’s to doing life together — beautifully, boldly, and bougie. 💕✨

#ThankfulThursday #BougieMoments #SisterhoodHeals #CommunityOverIsolation #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

✨ Thankful Thursday ✨

This morning, while flipping through my journal, I came across a note I wrote to myself months ago:

“Isolation can be the enemy’s breeding ground.”

Whewww… that hit different today.

Because if we’re honest, when life starts “lifing,” our first instinct is often to pull back… to disappear… to try to deal with everything alone.

But the truth is:

We are not meant to do life by ourselves.

Community matters.
Sisterhood matters.
Being surrounded by women who pour back into you with love, laughter, encouragement, and accountability absolutely matters.

Looking at these moments — these smiles, rooftop sunsets, dance nights, brunches, and sister circles — I’m reminded of just how blessed I am for the women God has placed in my life. Women who show up. Women who pray. Women who pour. Women who hold space.

Today, I’m thankful for community — the kind that reminds you you’re not alone, the kind that lifts you even when you don’t have the words, and the kind that helps you keep going when you feel like shrinking back.

If life is heavy right now, don’t isolate.
Lean in.
There is love waiting for you.
There is joy waiting for you.
There is sisterhood waiting for you.

Here’s to doing life together — beautifully, boldly, and bougie. 💕✨

#ThankfulThursday #BougieMoments #SisterhoodHeals #CommunityOverIsolation #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

✨ Little Black Dress Magic ✨

Friday night was everything! I had the honor of attending the 3rd Annual Little Black Dress Event curated by @stephithelight in collaboration with the Middletown Area Chamber of Commerce — a celebration of women in business, community, connection, and pure joy.

It was the perfect blend of glam, girl-time, and genuine networking.

A room full of women showing up confident, powerful, and ready to support one another?

Yes, please. 🖤

From shared laughs to meaningful conversations… from new connections to unforgettable moments… the energy was soft, feminine, fun, and fabulous — exactly the kind of night that fills your cup and reminds you why community matters.

Because when women come together with purpose and intention, something beautiful happens.

We shine a little brighter.
We cheer a little louder.
We leave a little more inspired.

Here’s to black dresses, bold moves, and spaces where women get to be seen, celebrated, and poured into. 🥂✨

#LittleBlackDressEvent #WomenInBusiness #MiddletownChamber #SisterhoodInStyle #BougieMoments #TheBougieOne #GirlsNightGlam #BlackDressMagic #CommunityAndConnection 🖤✨

✨ Little Black Dress Magic ✨

Friday night was everything! I had the honor of attending the 3rd Annual Little Black Dress Event curated by @stephithelight in collaboration with the Middletown Area Chamber of Commerce — a celebration of women in business, community, connection, and pure joy.

It was the perfect blend of glam, girl-time, and genuine networking.

A room full of women showing up confident, powerful, and ready to support one another?

Yes, please. 🖤

From shared laughs to meaningful conversations… from new connections to unforgettable moments… the energy was soft, feminine, fun, and fabulous — exactly the kind of night that fills your cup and reminds you why community matters.

Because when women come together with purpose and intention, something beautiful happens.

We shine a little brighter.
We cheer a little louder.
We leave a little more inspired.

Here’s to black dresses, bold moves, and spaces where women get to be seen, celebrated, and poured into. 🥂✨

#LittleBlackDressEvent #WomenInBusiness #MiddletownChamber #SisterhoodInStyle #BougieMoments #TheBougieOne #GirlsNightGlam #BlackDressMagic #CommunityAndConnection 🖤✨

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**Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality: A Sensual Dance Experience**

**Back by _very_ popular demand, Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality is making its fierce return—and you already know the energy is about to be everything!**

✨ **Whether you’re tapping into your divine feminine, reigniting your confidence, or simply craving a night out with your girls, this class was designed to help you reconnect with your sensual self in the most _bougie_ way possible.**

💃🏽 **Led by a powerhouse instructor, this isn’t just any dance class—it’s a _vibe._ Think dim lights, sultry music, and the freedom to move like nobody’s watching. Heels are encouraged (but not required)—come as you are, leave as _her._**

🥂 **We’ll sip, sway, and slay together in a supportive, no-judgment zone that celebrates sisterhood, softness, and sensuality. Trust us—once you experience it, you’ll understand why the girls have been asking for this one to come back!**

**Spaces are limited to keep the experience intimate and empowering. Grab your girls (or come solo and leave with new besties) and don’t miss your chance to step into your soft, sexy era.**

Ticket sales end 11/8. Visit bit.ly/sipanddance for your tickets!

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**Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality: A Sensual Dance Experience**

**Back by _very_ popular demand, Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality is making its fierce return—and you already know the energy is about to be everything!**

✨ **Whether you’re tapping into your divine feminine, reigniting your confidence, or simply craving a night out with your girls, this class was designed to help you reconnect with your sensual self in the most _bougie_ way possible.**

💃🏽 **Led by a powerhouse instructor, this isn’t just any dance class—it’s a _vibe._ Think dim lights, sultry music, and the freedom to move like nobody’s watching. Heels are encouraged (but not required)—come as you are, leave as _her._**

🥂 **We’ll sip, sway, and slay together in a supportive, no-judgment zone that celebrates sisterhood, softness, and sensuality. Trust us—once you experience it, you’ll understand why the girls have been asking for this one to come back!**

**Spaces are limited to keep the experience intimate and empowering. Grab your girls (or come solo and leave with new besties) and don’t miss your chance to step into your soft, sexy era.**

Ticket sales end 11/8. Visit bit.ly/sipanddance for your tickets!

It’s your time to Reset & Renew. ✨

A day of luxury, sisterhood, and soulful restoration awaits.

Join us Saturday, January 24, 2026, for a one-day retreat designed to help you release, realign, and rise into your next season with peace and purpose.

💫 Wellness talk • Sound bath • Guided journaling • Empowerment
🍾 Velvet robes • Chef-curated brunch • Sisterhood energy

Because you deserve to be poured into, too.

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

It’s your time to Reset & Renew. ✨

A day of luxury, sisterhood, and soulful restoration awaits.

Join us Saturday, January 24, 2026, for a one-day retreat designed to help you release, realign, and rise into your next season with peace and purpose.

💫 Wellness talk • Sound bath • Guided journaling • Empowerment
🍾 Velvet robes • Chef-curated brunch • Sisterhood energy

Because you deserve to be poured into, too.

#BougieMoments #ResetAndRenew #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

**Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality: A Sensual Dance Experience**

**Back by very popular demand, Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality is making its fierce return—and you already know the energy is about to be everything!**

✨ **Whether you’re tapping into your divine feminine, reigniting your confidence, or simply craving a night out with your girls, this class was designed to help you reconnect with your sensual self in the most bougie way possible.**

💃🏽 **Led by a powerhouse instructor, this isn’t just any dance class—it’s a vibe. Think dim lights, sultry music, and the freedom to move like nobody’s watching. Heels are encouraged (but not required)—come as you are, leave as her.**

🥂 **We’ll sip, sway, and slay together in a supportive, no-judgment zone that celebrates sisterhood, softness, and sensuality. Trust us—once you experience it, you’ll understand why the girls have been asking for this one to come back!**

**Spaces are limited to keep the experience intimate and empowering. Grab your girls (or come solo and leave with new besties) and don’t miss your chance to step into your soft, sexy era.**

Visit http://bit.ly/sipanddance for tickets!! Sale ends 11/8 so dont wait🫶🏾

**Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality: A Sensual Dance Experience**

**Back by very popular demand, Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality is making its fierce return—and you already know the energy is about to be everything!**

✨ **Whether you’re tapping into your divine feminine, reigniting your confidence, or simply craving a night out with your girls, this class was designed to help you reconnect with your sensual self in the most bougie way possible.**

💃🏽 **Led by a powerhouse instructor, this isn’t just any dance class—it’s a vibe. Think dim lights, sultry music, and the freedom to move like nobody’s watching. Heels are encouraged (but not required)—come as you are, leave as her.**

🥂 **We’ll sip, sway, and slay together in a supportive, no-judgment zone that celebrates sisterhood, softness, and sensuality. Trust us—once you experience it, you’ll understand why the girls have been asking for this one to come back!**

**Spaces are limited to keep the experience intimate and empowering. Grab your girls (or come solo and leave with new besties) and don’t miss your chance to step into your soft, sexy era.**

Visit http://bit.ly/sipanddance for tickets!! Sale ends 11/8 so dont wait🫶🏾

🎭✨ Tonight’s the Night, Bougie Beauties!

We’re diving into The Unexpected Diva by the incredible Tiffany L. Warren for this month’s Bougie Book of the Month Book Club pick.

📚✨ Join us tonight for the discussion!
💬 Bring your thoughts, your theories, and your favorite lines—because we’re unpacking all the layers in true bougie fashion.

📍 Where: Zoom
⏰ Time: 7:30pm
👠 Vibe: Unapologetically bold, beautifully bougie.

#BougieBookClub #TheUnexpectedDiva #TiffanyLWarren #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #BlackGirlsRead #TalkBougieToMe

🎭✨ Tonight’s the Night, Bougie Beauties!

We’re diving into The Unexpected Diva by the incredible Tiffany L. Warren for this month’s Bougie Book of the Month Book Club pick.

📚✨ Join us tonight for the discussion!
💬 Bring your thoughts, your theories, and your favorite lines—because we’re unpacking all the layers in true bougie fashion.

📍 Where: Zoom
⏰ Time: 7:30pm
👠 Vibe: Unapologetically bold, beautifully bougie.

#BougieBookClub #TheUnexpectedDiva #TiffanyLWarren #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #BlackGirlsRead #TalkBougieToMe

We’re not just creating moments — we’re curating transformations.

Every gathering, conversation, and connection is an invitation to live fully — in luxury, in healing, and in sisterhood. 💕

✨ Upscale Lifestyle
✨ Wellness & Worthiness
✨ Wholeness & Healing
✨ Legacy & Wealth

We serve the whole woman — mind, body, and soul.

#BougieMoments #TalkBougieToMe #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

We’re not just creating moments — we’re curating transformations.

Every gathering, conversation, and connection is an invitation to live fully — in luxury, in healing, and in sisterhood. 💕

✨ Upscale Lifestyle
✨ Wellness & Worthiness
✨ Wholeness & Healing
✨ Legacy & Wealth

We serve the whole woman — mind, body, and soul.

#BougieMoments #TalkBougieToMe #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

#cocktailsandconversations #bougiemoments #fallmeetup #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

#cocktailsandconversations #bougiemoments #fallmeetup #lifestyleoftheblackandbougie

Fall sunsets, rooftop vibes, and unforgettable connections 💕

Yesterday’s Bougie Moments Fall Meetup at the Quoin Hotel Rooftop was everything we needed and more — laughter, light, and luxe energy all around. 🍸✨ What started as rooftop cocktails carried over into an impromptu dinner, because when the vibes are right, you keep them going!

These are the moments that remind us why community matters — genuine sisterhood, good conversation, and space to simply be.

Here’s to more beautiful connections, meaningful conversations, and Bougie Moments that fill your cup and your soul. 🥂

Tag your Bougie Sister in these photos and tell her: we need a night like this again soon! 💕

#BougieMoments #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #CocktailsAndConversations #FallMeetup #SisterhoodInStyle #TheBougieOne

Fall sunsets, rooftop vibes, and unforgettable connections 💕

Yesterday’s Bougie Moments Fall Meetup at the Quoin Hotel Rooftop was everything we needed and more — laughter, light, and luxe energy all around. 🍸✨ What started as rooftop cocktails carried over into an impromptu dinner, because when the vibes are right, you keep them going!

These are the moments that remind us why community matters — genuine sisterhood, good conversation, and space to simply be.

Here’s to more beautiful connections, meaningful conversations, and Bougie Moments that fill your cup and your soul. 🥂

Tag your Bougie Sister in these photos and tell her: we need a night like this again soon! 💕

#BougieMoments #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #CocktailsAndConversations #FallMeetup #SisterhoodInStyle #TheBougieOne

✨ Mindful Monday ✨

This weekend reminded me to pause and pour back in. Between International Day of the Girl and Black Girl Day Off, I was reminded how sacred rest and support truly are. 🩷

Today I’m walking in gratitude — I’m officially onboarding an admin for Bougie Moments! 🙌🏽

Allowing someone to help me carry the load means I can show up even more fully, more creatively, and more me.

Sis, this is your reminder: you don’t have to do it all alone.

Asking for help is not weakness — it’s alignment.

🕯️Mantra: “I release the need to do it all. I make space for support, ease, and expansion.”

#MindfulMonday #BougieMoments #BlackGirlDayOff #InternationalDayoftheGirl #LuxuryInEase #TheBougieOne

✨ Mindful Monday ✨

This weekend reminded me to pause and pour back in. Between International Day of the Girl and Black Girl Day Off, I was reminded how sacred rest and support truly are. 🩷

Today I’m walking in gratitude — I’m officially onboarding an admin for Bougie Moments! 🙌🏽

Allowing someone to help me carry the load means I can show up even more fully, more creatively, and more me.

Sis, this is your reminder: you don’t have to do it all alone.

Asking for help is not weakness — it’s alignment.

🕯️Mantra: “I release the need to do it all. I make space for support, ease, and expansion.”

#MindfulMonday #BougieMoments #BlackGirlDayOff #InternationalDayoftheGirl #LuxuryInEase #TheBougieOne

Today is World Mental Health Day — a global reminder that your mind deserves as much care, rest, and luxury as your body. 💕

At Bougie Moments, we believe mental wellness is luxury — because peace of mind, emotional balance, and self-awareness are the ultimate forms of self-care.

✨ Take a breath.
✨ Release the pressure to perform.
✨ Remember that healing is a journey, not a race.

Your #bougiemoment today might be journaling in silence, canceling plans without guilt, or simply choosing peace. Whatever it looks like — honor it. 🥂

#WorldMentalHealthDay #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #WellnessIsBougie #HealingInHeels #SelfCareIsLuxury #BougieMoments

Today is World Mental Health Day — a global reminder that your mind deserves as much care, rest, and luxury as your body. 💕

At Bougie Moments, we believe mental wellness is luxury — because peace of mind, emotional balance, and self-awareness are the ultimate forms of self-care.

✨ Take a breath.
✨ Release the pressure to perform.
✨ Remember that healing is a journey, not a race.

Your #bougiemoment today might be journaling in silence, canceling plans without guilt, or simply choosing peace. Whatever it looks like — honor it. 🥂

#WorldMentalHealthDay #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie #WellnessIsBougie #HealingInHeels #SelfCareIsLuxury #BougieMoments

✨ Your next Bougie Moments are waiting…
Fall is serving cocktails, conversations, sisterhood, and a little sensuality. 💋

Mark your calendars, beauties — we’ve got experiences you won’t want to miss!

Cocktails & Conversations -Pull upon us!
Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality- Link in Bio!
R&B Dinner Party - Save the Date!

#BougieMoments #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

✨ Your next Bougie Moments are waiting…
Fall is serving cocktails, conversations, sisterhood, and a little sensuality. 💋

Mark your calendars, beauties — we’ve got experiences you won’t want to miss!

Cocktails & Conversations -Pull upon us!
Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality- Link in Bio!
R&B Dinner Party - Save the Date!

#BougieMoments #LifestyleOfTheBlackAndBougie

Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality:
A Sensual Dance Experience

Back by very popular demand, Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality is making its fierce return—and you already know the energy is about to be everything!

✨ Whether you’re tapping into your divine feminine, reigniting your confidence, or simply craving a night out with your girls, this class was designed to help you reconnect with your sensual self in the most bougie way possible.

💃🏽 Led by a powerhouse instructor, this isn’t just any dance class—it’s a vibe. Think dim lights, sultry music, and the freedom to move like nobody’s watching. Heels are encouraged (but not required)—come as you are, leave as HER. ✨

Space is limited! Secure your spot today! Link 🔗 in bio!

#girlsnightout #bougiemoments

Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality:
A Sensual Dance Experience

Back by very popular demand, Stilettos, Sips, & Sensuality is making its fierce return—and you already know the energy is about to be everything!

✨ Whether you’re tapping into your divine feminine, reigniting your confidence, or simply craving a night out with your girls, this class was designed to help you reconnect with your sensual self in the most bougie way possible.

💃🏽 Led by a powerhouse instructor, this isn’t just any dance class—it’s a vibe. Think dim lights, sultry music, and the freedom to move like nobody’s watching. Heels are encouraged (but not required)—come as you are, leave as HER. ✨

Space is limited! Secure your spot today! Link 🔗 in bio!

#girlsnightout #bougiemoments

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